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The Ten-Step Process to Enlightenment
How convenient it would be, if we could pick up the ten-step process to enlightenment, study it thoroughly so we know exactly what to do, have a teacher we trust who tells us exactly how long it will take if we do this method, and off we go, with determination on a straight path to the promise of never ending happiness on the horizon. But the spiritual journey doesn’t quite work like this. Most of us will find out rather quickly that it is far from linear. Many of us these da
Nov 18


The Intimate Relationship Between Yoga, Sexual Energy, and Awakening.
During the autumn retreats here in Portugal, I gave multiple lectures and workshops on the relationship between yoga, meditation, desire and sexual energy. And telling by the response, these were some of my most well received workshops, ever. The subject of sexual energy is one that catches attention and curiosity quickly. As indeed, it is a fascinating subject. A powerful subject. A sacred subject. A necessary and vital subject, when discussing yoga. The Hatha Yoga literatur
Oct 16


How to Protect Your Peace from People’s Emotional Drama
People in pain, and emotional immaturity, are everywhere. Now when people become more spiritually oriented, they often become internally...
Sep 5


Meditating on the ‘I Am’: The Highest Method
Out of my decade of studying and practicing meditation intensively in a wide variety of traditions with many different teachers, one of...
Sep 5


A Recovering Smiler - How Men Lose Themselves Trying to Be Nice
I sometimes refer to myself as a recovering smiler, as I used to smile a lot in moments when it was inauthentic for me to smile. It was a symptom of something deeper; it was part of an unconscious ‘nice guy’ persona that I was upholding. I was already for years on my journey of shadow work before I found out I was doing this and that it was inauthentic; a mask. Most of the time, I wasn’t smiling to give love, or because I felt like smiling. I was putting on a smile to be like
Jun 11


The Power of Boredom
One of the most consistent exercises I give to my private clients, especially when summer begins to end and autumn begins to arrive, is...
Sep 17, 2024


Don't Solidify in your Worldviews
Every concept is false. Or at best, more or less accurate in representing truth. - The moment we start to speak about ‘my ideology’ or...
Jul 24, 2024


The Three Psychic Knots of Hatha Yoga
The ancient teachings of Hatha Yoga and Tantra explain (quite brilliantly) a deep connection between mind and body, consciousness and...
Apr 10, 2024


A Secret Practice
When we first hear about secret initiations and practices, Kundalini visions and mysterious third-eye touching guru’s in Himalayan caves,...
Feb 7, 2024


You Are The Sky
Next time you meditate, try this simple instruction to have a swift glimpse of no-mind. - Sit comfortably, straighten the spine....
Feb 3, 2024


Unmasking The Self
The other day, here at our month long co-living experience with Innate in South Portugal, I gave everyone in the group a piece of paper...
Feb 2, 2024


Social Media, Vulnerability & Privacy
There was a time when I would share lengthy, vulnerable posts about my processes. It was almost a trend in the social media world of...
Sep 25, 2023


Siddhi's: Spiritual Powers
In the Yoga Sutra’s, an ancient scripture of over 2000 years old, one of the four chapter is completely dedicated to describe ‘siddhis’:...
Sep 22, 2023


Honor your obstacles
In life and as humans, we inevitably encounter obstacles along our path. Sometimes, these obstacles protect us from going down a path...
Sep 20, 2023


Dealing with the ego when doing spiritual work
Someone I coach asked me: I want to build my personal brand, I believe I can help people. I was wondering how you do that? Obviously you...
Sep 1, 2023


The only way out is through
I used to be, and still am, deeply interested in the concept - or rather experience of - enlightenment. Complete spiritual clarity. But I...
Aug 31, 2023


Allow people to be exactly as they are
Part of the spiritual process is to learn to allow people to be exactly as they are, and not how you want them to be. And to make no...
Aug 28, 2023


I do not wish anyone healing
Because to wish so would imply that someone is currently broken.
Jul 18, 2023


Lessons I learned from coaching for 4 years
Since about four years I’ve been doing one-on-one mentorships and coaching. Its shape has been ever transforming, and I’ve learned a lot...
Jul 16, 2023


Combining spiritual methods
In an era in which a wide variety of ancient spiritual teachings is more accessible than ever, many people will naturally and unavoidably...
Jul 12, 2023
