Often times, I see when men are new to spirituality, and conscious intimacy, and learn about polarity and the importance of presence when relating to the feminine, that they fall into performative presence, because they haven't been initiated well into what true presence really is. I see this visibly happening. A good place to observe this is at neo-tantra festivals and workshops. The men sitting motionless in front of the women, because they picked up the idea that the mascu